Monday, October 31, 2005

Happy Halloween

Wow, what an amazing day.

After many days stuck at 6 lbs 14 oz, Garrett has finally hit the 7 lbs mark! We put him in his "My Little Pumpkin" Outfit to start the day. In the afternoon our second big event occurred. I opened Garrett's diaper to change him and his umbilical cord stump had fallen off. After that we changed him into his first actual costume, Garrett the little Duck. Andrea set him down in the Pack 'N Play for a few minutes, but when she heard him cry she ran over to see that he had flipped himself over onto his stomach. We've heard this behavior usually happens between 3 and 6 months, so this may be a total fluke. He's been rolling on his side to get close to either parent at night, so this may have been the next step. Andrea would have taken a picture, but he was having trouble because his pacifier was in the way of his breathing (which is why Garrett was crying), so she moved him immediately.

We went for a family walk in the late afternoon, and on our return we stopped to Trick or Treat at the Dolce's, next door. They invited us over for a visit and Patty's daughter, Olivia, got a chance to hold Garrett. After returning home, we had our first ever Trick or Treaters in six years living here. It was Rachel and Betsy Kottkamp, two of my cousins, with their mom, Bev. They came to see Garrett in costume, and because they had heard we had the good candy! In fact, they even brought their friends by later, which was good because those are the only candies we gave out all night after buying a big package! After such a full day Andrea and Garrett fell asleep early and it lasted a few hours before the night feedings started.

Another fun event today was introducing Garrett to his Mobile. He loves to look at the animals and listen to the music. We attached it to the side of his Pack 'N Play and he starred at it intently.

Sunday, October 30, 2005

Quiet Day at Home

The Kottkamps visited this morning. We looked through wedding pictures while Garrett finished eating. Then everybody held him.



We took a long family walk, then we had dinner at home and watched one of our all time favorite movies, Life As A House. Warning, curtosy of Justin, this is a very sad movie. However, the characters go through an amazing journey and it is incredibly moving.

Saturday, October 29, 2005

Daily Dose of Dolce

Our neighbors, Patty and Cy Dolce, came over today for a visit. Garrett was very happy being held by Patty and looking at her and then at Cy, back and forth, new faces to study!

It turns out that both of Patty's daughters had blocked tear ducts as infants to the point that they were surgically opened at 3 months old. It's always nice to talk to someone who has experienced something you are going through.

We went for a long family walk this afternoon and bumped into Patrice, one of the yoga instructors from InnerWorks. She was delighted to have a surprise meeting with Garrett.

Unfortunately, the Dolce's could only stay for an hour and a half because they were going to a gathering for a friend who just lost their pug during anaesthesia. Hearing the story would make any dog lover sad. After dinner, Patty came back over for another visit. Patty and I discussed all the propositions on the California special election while Garrett drifted in and out of sleep in Patty's arms. I have been especially interested in hearing Patty's opinions because she is a high school teacher, so 74 - 76 affect her directly, but I also enjoyed hearing a different viewpoint on the other propositions. Garrett did not vocalize a preference for any arguments; I think he is still undecided.

Friday, October 28, 2005

Garrett Video #2








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Keeping Busy

We visited Dr Warren again today to check Garrett's eyes for infection. He has been having eye goop for about a week, but yesterday it was thicker and a yellowish-green. Dr Warren prescribed some eye drops to make sure that there isn't any infection, but it is most likely blocked tear ducts.

One of Andrea's Pilates colleagues, Vicky, came with her daughter, MacKenzie, to meet Garrett today. Vicky thought he looked so small even though MacKenzie was only 6 pounds 1 ounce when she was born. I guess one forgets how small they are! When Andrea was about 2 months pregnant we were driving with Vicky and her husband, Rick, and trying to describe the size of Garrett in the womb. And that's when he got his nickname, Gherkin, which Andrea and I used for him through the rest of the pregnancy. At the time he was the size of a little gherkin pickle. The day he was born I called him Gherkin more than Garrett, but now I only use it occasionally as a term of affection.



Today Garrett is 2 weeks old, and he weighes 6 pounds & 14 ounces, which is
close enough to his birth weight for Dr Warren. It has gone by so amazingly quickly. When I look back at the pictures from his birthdate, I can see that he has changed a little, but seeing him every day I don't notice the change. I'm sure it only speeds up from here.

Bonus pictures are of Andrea & Garrett

Thursday, October 27, 2005

Right Time, Wrong Zone

Our little Garrett still likes to be awake in the middle of the night. Last night I didn't fight it, but took him downstairs and watched some TV so Andrea could sleep. As long as I am holding him, he seems content to sleep in my arms, but when I snuck back upstairs he almost immediately awoke and started crying (so much for Andrea sleeping).

Since I was awake during the night, Andrea let me sleep in this morning. In the end I think I got more sleep than she did, so much for my brilliant plan. However, we each got some one-on-one time with Garrett, which was nice for both of us.

We've been trying to figure out how to wake him up during the day to help him change his schedule, and he does spend some day time awake and very alert. But when he decides to take a nap, he is sound asleep.

However, I think Andrea's client figured out the mystery. She suggested that our little Garrett might be on a different time zone. Our little Rosenheim boy is on German time!

Garrett really likes the sound of our spot remover, we call it a "Zoom Zoom". Every time we turn it on, his eyes open really big and he seems to be listening intently. We think he likes the sound of it, maybe it reminds him of the sounds of being in the womb.

This evening, on our way back from a family walk, we stopped by our neighbor's house. The Dolce's had only seen Garrett in passing, usually in his stroller and we were asking when they would like to come visit him, when it started to sprinkle. We brought Garrett inside so he wouldn't be in the rain and also so Patty and Cy could get to see him in some real lights. Patty's daughter, Olivia, was also there and we had a nice visit. We made plans to see Patty and Cy on Saturday, but I insisted Cy pose for a picture, although Patty wanted to wait until Saturday. Their pugs, Sophia and Darla, were very intersted in Garrett.

Wednesday, October 26, 2005

Time Flies When You Have a Little Boy

Today went by so quickly! This morning we had a painter come by to fix some bad caulking lines in our living room. Then Garrett had a bath before Danielle arrived in the afternoon for a visit. Since we had run out of Pampers earlier in the day, and since the Target brand diapers seem to guarantee a wet outfit with each wet diaper, I went to the store. Three stores later I had diapers, household items and food and it was 8pm! After dinner we spent some time together but both Andrea and Garrett fell asleep by 10:30. It's amazing how quickly the day whized by, and I want these days when I am home to go slowly...



Today I am posting two bath pictures. The first was taken after Garrett's bath today and it's coupled with a photo of Garrett in a bathrobe after his first bath at home. He is just so darn cute!




I have heard (and experienced) that the Flash Video from yesterday will only work with the latest version of the Flash plugin. Also note that the Macromedia website states that after installing the plugin you may have to reboot. I would change may to will since it seems to be a given. Sorry if anyone is struggling with the technology, that wasn't my intention. If I had a little more time and more control over the hosting I would post it in a format that had more flexibility (downloadable, etc). However, if I had not used VideoEgg to upload this video, it probably would have been a month before any video made it's way to posting, so hopefully we can work out the details.

Tuesday, October 25, 2005

Garrett Video for 10/25










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I found an easy way to get up to 30 seconds of video up on the web. It's called VideoEgg. Here's the first clip of Garrett.

Monday, October 24, 2005

Celebrating a Spectacular Year

Today Andrea and I celebrated our one year wedding anniversary. Last October 24th our (extended) family witnessed us declare our commitment to each other in a beautiful ceremony. Tonight we watched our wedding video and I was reminded both of what a fantastic event it was and what an amazing year it has been since then, most especially the birth of our son ten days ago.

Our day was much quieter than last year. We spent it at home with Garrett, made a nice dinner and watched the video. This afternoon we took a family walk which put Garrett to sleep for the next four hours. We may find that he doesn't want to sleep during the night after such a long nap, but he was so content in his warm outfit and bundled in his seat blanket.




Today's picture is of Garrett in his bouncer. It was actually taken yesterday, but it's a better picture than all the ones of him in his bouncer today. I made the 1 picture per day rules, I can bend them and ultimately, it's the better picture that matters.



Anniversary Cake
Update: Close to midnight we had a piece of our wedding cake. We had been saving the top tier in the freezer since last year. It was not as good as last year, but it brought back memories and it still looks exquisite!

Sunday, October 23, 2005

Busy Day for our Star

Garrett had a lot of visitors today! First his Grandma Marilyn and Aunt Betsy came to the house and brought lunch. Marilyn showed us pictures and gifts from the Grandma's Shower that the nurses at Head Start threw for her.

After lunch Aunt Bev brought Rachel and Betsy, Garrett's cousins to meet him. They both held him and commented on how cute he is. He was very alert and moving his eyes between them. You can really see him absorbing the world around him.

Garrett & Katie on a Family Walk
After they had left we tried our family walk for the second time, not waiting until dusk this time. Despite a chilly wind, we had a very nice walk around our neighborhood and I was able to capture Katie walking and Garrett riding in the stroller in a single picture.

This evening Andrea's parents stopped at our house for dinner on their way back from the desert. They brought the groceries and prepared the meal. Also Mormor (Swedish for Maternal Grandmother) brought a suitcase-full of gifts, mostly clothing. I think Garrett will be able to wear a different outfit every day until his second birthday at this rate.

Earlier in the day, Danielle called to ask if Garrett needed any more 5 - 7 lb clothes, the size he is wearing now. Garrett is lucky to have so many people who care about him who are buying him these presents, but it's amazing how much clothing he owns. I think the fact that Garrett's sex was unknown until birth only added to this phenomenon. People bought gender neutral gifts for our showers and now they want to buy "boy stuff", even though they have already given gifts.

It's been a very busy day, and I am impressed that Garrett handled it without getting fussy. He did nap on our walk, which probably explains why he is now wide awake when it's time to sleep. Pictures will be added at a later time. Right now I have to get some sleep so I am rested for our one year wedding anniversary tomorrow.

Update: Pictures were added on Monday, October 24th

Saturday, October 22, 2005

Visit from Natalie & First Walk



Today Natalie came up to meet Garrett. We had a nice visit, and I took the opportunity to sneak away to pick up the second half of my anniversary gift for Andrea while we had company. Garrett had a lot of alert time today after sleeping for almost 5 hours in one block last night.

This evening we bundled Garrett up for his first family walk.

Friday, October 21, 2005

You Don't Get a Second Chance...







Last night we gave two baths, but only Katie's was planned. However, once everybody was clean, we had our first meeting between Kiss Me Kate and Garrett. Katie seemed interested in Garrett, but after a few moments she just sat down. However, I was happy to get some pictures of my two munchkins together.

Adding thousands of words

If you have been keeping up with What's Up Cordova-Caddes, then I encourage you to go back to posts from the last week. Today I added a lot of new pictures to the Cordova-Caddes FlickR Collection. I've been going back to update the mobile posts I wrote over the week to include pictures and links. I even added a new post that had been started but never finished or uploaded. If you want to see all the pictures from the birth you can look here.

Today's Picture of the Day is Garrett in his Bassinet

Thursday, October 20, 2005

Very Well Visit

Today was Garrett's well baby visit and Dr Warren said that another blood test for jaundice is not necessary. Garrett looks less yellow today, although it could take two weeks before the yellow is totally gone.

Each day seems to fly by, especially spending three mornings at the pediatrician's office and the lab. However, we have been taking lots of pictures. Today's picture of the day is of Garrett and Dr Warren.

Wednesday, October 19, 2005

In the Right Direction





Today's second billiruben test showed a level of 16.7, not as low as we would like, but definitely heading in the right direction. Garrett's scheduled check-up with Dr Warren is tomorrow, so we'll discuss it with him tomorrow. Hopefully we are out of the woods. This is Garrett getting ready to go to the lab for his test.

Tuesday, October 18, 2005

We like Yellow on Ducks



Garrett moved up his first pediatrician's appointment by showing signs of jaundice this morning. He was sleepy and didn't want to wake up to eat between 12 and 7am. The office had us come in to have him checked, and as soon as we left the house we could see the yellow color of his skin and eyes. Unfortunately indoor lighting masks the effect. Dr Warren said that he looks like his level is higher than normal, but not definitely in the dangerous range. Garrett had to have blood drawn from his heel for testing. He did really well, but unfortunately has to have it done again tomorrow to compare his values (going up or going down). Dr Warren called back close to 6pm to tell us his lab result was 17.4. What I understand is that 15 and below is definitely safe and above 20 is dangerous, so Garrett is in the middle. The uncertainty is awful, but hopefully tomorrow his level will be down and his body will take care of the billirubin naturally.

This evening, Garrett met his uncle Justin and spent the evening with him and Danielle. They brought dinner ready to go into the oven, and we all enjoyed their visit.

Cross your fingers for a good (low) score tomorrow

Monday, October 17, 2005

Getting used to the world

Today has been one of transition, no visitors and nurses, just the four of us (Katie is the fourth if you were wondering) at home. Garrett is eating about every hour and at times the cycle of eat, burp, try the other breast, burp, change diaper, seems to finish just in time to eat again, but it's been a good day.

Garrett had his first bath at home and it almost included him kicking the water basin into the sink, but his mommy is too quick. We got some cute pictures of him bathing.



It's amazing how enormous the newborn baby clothes are on Garrett. We did not have too many because it seemed that he would grow out of them too quickly yo be worth having, but even the 5 to 8 lb clothes have extra room. We received some additional newborn stuff from people who couldn't wait to buy for a boy once they knew the sex, so once they get washed we'll have plenty of options. Aunt Danielle even brought her gifts washed so he could wear them immediately! Now our job is to get him to grow so he fills out the Newborn size. His weight today is 6 lbs 8 oz, up from a low of 6 lbs 7 oz.

It's amazing how tiny Garrett is!

Sunday, October 16, 2005

Homecoming Day

Garrett came home today with Andrea and Tom. It was family day. Marilyn (Tom's Mom) and Betsy (Tom's Aunt) came to the hospital this morning and visited with Garrett as Andrea and Tom packed up and got ready to come home. They saw us off from the hospital around 2pm.



When we arrived home Mariann (Andrea's Mom) was there cleaning and getting things ready for Garrett's homecoming. Ron (Andrea's Dad) and Danielle (Andrea's Sister) arrived soon after with groceries and Ron met Garrett for the first time. After spending the evening together, with dinner provided by Danielle, we are ready for our first night at home with Garrett.



Thanks to everyone who sent congratulations. We appreciate all the warm
wishes.

Saturday, October 15, 2005

The Day After


Today was spent getting to know Garrett and seeing more visitors. Darci came to the hospital to meet Garrett. Also Grandma Marilyn and Aunt Betsy came to the hospital again to spend time with Garrett and visit with Andrea and I.

I am sorry to say that I took only video during all of this, so today's picture is actually from yesterday, but it's actually Garrett's first picture ever. Only two minutes after he was born, Danielle took his picture.

Friday, October 14, 2005

Garrett Michael's Birth Day!

Wow! It was an amazing day. Last night at 11:30pm Andrea's water broke. And within 6 hours Garrett Michael Cordova-Caddes was born. We got to the hospital about 12:30 and skipped evaluation, going directly into a room. After taking blood and attaching the fetal monitor, the time went into fast forward for me. Andrea's mom and sister, Danielle, arrived about half an hour after we got to the hospital, and they stayed with us throughout labor and delivery. I couldn't share all my thoughts in pages and pages of writing, but it was an amazing event. Andrea was so brave and wonderful. Garrett came so fast, and when he actually emerged I felt as if time froze. In an instant I realized that this tiny body was a person, and that this person was going to depend on Andrea and I to raise him. It was simply awe inspiring.

Not everything went according to plan. Dr Cropper was out of town, so Garrett was delivered by someone we had only met once, and briefly. The epidural that Andrea asked for at 4cm dialated, was brought by the anaesthesiologist when she was around 9 and ready to push, then it had an inclusion and did not work anyway. Our number one request was to have Garrett placed on Andrea's chest immediately after delivery, but instead he was taken to the nurse for what seemed like an eternity. Still, despite all those things, when you look at Garrett, it all fades to the background. I am so amazemed at how Andrea delivered our son.

The rest of the day was used for recuperation and visitors. Tom's mom, Aunt Betsy, and Aunt Bev came to meet Garrett. Later in the evening, Aunt Bev brought Tom's cousin Bill to the hospital.

This evening Garrett was circumsized by Dr Warren. Andrea and I felt that it was best to lump all the tramatic events into one day.

Now that all the visitors have left and it's just the three of us, I can relax and just watch him. He's such an beautiful baby and I feel so lucky to be his dad. I will never forget to the feeling I had when he was born. This happiness has no measure.

Introducing Garrett Michael Cordova-Caddes




What can I say! At 4:47 AM on October 14, 2005, Garrett Michael Cordova-Caddes was born. He is the most beautiful site I have ever seen.

Tuesday, October 11, 2005

Suspicions Confirmed

Dr Cropper confirmed that Baby is definitely gearing up for an entrance. Andrea is almost 3 centimeters dialated and 80% effaced. Who knows when it will be, but probably very soon.

Monday, October 10, 2005

Warm up for the Big Show

Yesterday (Sunday) Andrea had recurring pains in her back. We weren't sure if it was the start of labor, but they decreased in frequency and she has not had contractions of the uterus. Not labor yet, but this might be a signal that Baby is getting ready. Andrea has felt Baby dropping and she is carrying lower. Stay tuned...